{"id":61885,"date":"2025-10-22T19:22:20","date_gmt":"2025-10-22T19:22:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fabricegrinda.com\/?p=61885"},"modified":"2025-11-10T13:41:57","modified_gmt":"2025-11-10T13:41:57","slug":"vu-tru-dang-thi-tham-voi-ban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/vi\/vu-tru-dang-thi-tham-voi-ban\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang th\u00ec th\u1ea7m v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ebb cong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra, d\u00f9 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 n\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra hay kh\u00f4ng. Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m t\u00f4i m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.  <\/p>\n\n<p>N\u0103m 2012, sau khi <a href=\"https:\/\/fabricegrinda.com\/vi\/tai-sao-toi-roi-olx\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/fabricegrinda.com\/why-i-am-leaving-olx\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi OLX<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/fabricegrinda.com\/vi\/su-xuong-cap-rat-lon\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/fabricegrinda.com\/the-very-big-downgrade\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">t\u00f4i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng du m\u1ee5c<\/a>. \u01af\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i tr\u00fa \u1ea9n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u1edbi l\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec7n, m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ee5 h\u1ecdp, t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n\n<p>Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i <a href=\"https:\/\/fabricegrinda.com\/why-i-chose-cabarete\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/fabricegrinda.com\/why-i-chose-cabarete\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ch\u1ecdn Cabarete \u1edf C\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a Dominican<\/a>. Tr\u00ean l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft, n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00ec th\u1ea7m b\u00e1o hi\u1ec7u \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Tham nh\u0169ng di\u1ec5n ra kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng. H\u1ed1i l\u1ed9 \u1edf kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. Kh\u00e1ch c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ebb m\u1ed9c m\u1ea1c quy\u1ebfn r\u0169. B\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt lan tr\u00e0n. Tr\u1ed9m c\u1eafp l\u00e0m ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3. M\u1ed9t b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eafn m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch. Sau \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng t\u00ean c\u01b0\u1edbp c\u00f3 v\u0169 trang x\u00f4ng v\u00e0o v\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. B\u1ea3y n\u0103m t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean, tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. B\u1ea3y n\u0103m ph\u1edbt l\u1edd ti\u1ebfng th\u00ec th\u1ea7m: <em>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1i n\u00e0y.<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p>\u0110\u1ebfn n\u0103m 2018, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng. V\u00e0 \u1edf Turks &amp; Caicos, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 y\u00eau th\u00edch n\u01a1i n\u00e0y. C\u00e1c h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb n\u1edf r\u1ed9. T\u00f4i l\u1ea1i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui v\u1edbi padel. T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng &#8220;c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t&#8221; th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00f3p ngh\u1eb9t &#8220;c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t&#8221;, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i \u1ea3o \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.     <\/p>\n\n<p>T\u00f4i c\u0169ng nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 khi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed ho\u00e0nh tr\u00e1ng, s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa <em>Age of Empires<\/em> , <em>Rise of Nations<\/em> v\u00e0 <em>Kohan<\/em> . Chi ph\u00ed t\u0103ng v\u1ecdt, th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i qua. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u: v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang n\u00f3i, <em>H\u00e3y ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean.<\/em>  <\/p>\n\n<p>T\u00f4i c\u00e0ng l\u1eafng nghe th\u00ec c\u00e1c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n<p>Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, \u1edf Th\u1ed5 Nh\u0129 K\u1ef3, d\u00f2ng \u0111i\u1ec7n \u0111ang y\u1ebfu d\u1ea7n. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00e1i ph\u00e9p, ch\u1eafn m\u1ea5t t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i \u00e1nh \u0111\u00e8n c\u1ee7a trung t\u00e2m th\u1ec3 thao c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. C\u00e1c b\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf c\u00e1c d\u1ef1 \u00e1n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch nh\u1ecf nhen. N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, tr\u00ec tr\u1ec7.    <\/p>\n\n<p>Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, Antigua v\u1eaby g\u1ecdi. Ch\u00ednh Th\u1ee7 t\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c mi\u1ec5n tr\u1eeb v\u00e0 gi\u1ea5y ph\u00e9p. C\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n t\u00f4i n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t. \u0110\u1ea1i s\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0a t\u00f4i bay qua h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea3o b\u1eb1ng tr\u1ef1c th\u0103ng, gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2y. D\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y \u1ea5y th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn.    <\/p>\n\n<p>C\u00f9ng l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, Midas, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i ch\u00fa \u00fd th\u00ec c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u l\u1ea1i tr\u00f9ng kh\u1edbp. <\/p>\n\n<p>Ngay c\u1ea3 c\u1eadu con trai ba tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u00ec th\u1ea7m th\u00eam v\u00e0o. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, n\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 em trai. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1eeb, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i l\u1eafng nghe. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3: tr\u1ebb con c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i. N\u00f3 g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c.     <\/p>\n\n<p><strong>L\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ec3n hi\u1ec7u neon<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng s\u00e9t \u00e1i t\u00ecnh: m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ch\u1edbp nho\u00e1ng, m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi vang d\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn. Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfm khi g\u00e0o th\u00e9t. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i kh\u1ebd. N\u00f3 th\u00fac gi\u1ee5c. N\u00f3 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra.    <\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m ch\u00fang ta nh\u1edb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u1ea1t sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>R\u00e0o c\u1ea3n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1edbi h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng m\u1edbi.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>S\u1ef1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi. <\/p>\n\n<p><strong>T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecf qua ch\u00fang<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta b\u00e1m v\u00edu v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng di\u1ec5n ra theo k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i theo k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh n\u00f3. Khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta coi nh\u1eefng t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n. Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng r\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. L\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00fa hu\u00fdch. C\u00fa hu\u00fdch tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00fa \u0111\u1ea9y. N\u1ebfu l\u1edd n\u00f3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e2u, m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.      <\/p>\n\n<p>Alan Watts \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u0111au kh\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. L\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. <\/p>\n\n<p><strong>S\u1ef1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean hay m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>Carl Jung g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9. Watts coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh n\u00f3. <\/p>\n\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n ngay khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00ecnh c\u1edd. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ee3i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m th\u1ea3m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ec7t v\u00e0o.   <\/p>\n\n<p>V\u0169 tr\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n, g\u1eedi nh\u1eefng g\u1ee3i \u00fd t\u1eeb xa. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 th\u00f4ng qua b\u1ea1n.  <\/p>\n\n<p><strong>L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 nghe l\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u00e9p thu\u1eadt. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. <\/p>\n\n<p>H\u00e3y t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng. L\u01b0u \u00fd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. Quan s\u00e1t s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y. Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.   <\/p>\n\n<p>L\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m tin. Ch\u00fang m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i nh\u1ecf, nh\u1eefng th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 h\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y theo ch\u00fang, v\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n h\u00e9 l\u1ed9 t\u1eebng vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e1 m\u1ed9t.  <\/p>\n\n<p><strong>\u0110i\u1ec3m ch\u00ednh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u00e9t l\u00ean. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng \u00e1t \u0111i ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n.  <\/p>\n\n<p>V\u1eady n\u00ean, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. H\u00edt th\u1edf. Quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1c quy lu\u1eadt. Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o s\u1ee9c k\u00e9o kh\u00f4ng bu\u00f4ng tha b\u1ea1n.   <\/p>\n\n<p>B\u1edfi v\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft b\u1ea1n su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian qua. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0: Li\u1ec7u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1eafng nghe kh\u00f4ng? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ebb cong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra, d\u00f9 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 n\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra hay &hellip; <a href=\"\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":60766,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[991,238,228,1006],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61885","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tam-linh","category-suy-nghi-ca-nhan","category-cac-bai-viet","category-tam-linh-2"],"acf":[],"contentUpdated":"V\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang th\u00ec th\u1ea7m v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Categories - T\u00e2m linh, Suy ngh\u0129 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, C\u00e1c b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft, T\u00e2m linh. Date-Posted - 2025-10-22T19:22:20 . \n Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ebb cong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra, d\u00f9 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 n\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra hay kh\u00f4ng. Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m t\u00f4i m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.  \n N\u0103m 2012, sau khi r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi OLX, t\u00f4i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng du m\u1ee5c. \u01af\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i tr\u00fa \u1ea9n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u1edbi l\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec7n, m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ee5 h\u1ecdp, t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.\n Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn Cabarete \u1edf C\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a Dominican. Tr\u00ean l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft, n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00ec th\u1ea7m b\u00e1o hi\u1ec7u \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Tham nh\u0169ng di\u1ec5n ra kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng. H\u1ed1i l\u1ed9 \u1edf kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. Kh\u00e1ch c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ebb m\u1ed9c m\u1ea1c quy\u1ebfn r\u0169. B\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt lan tr\u00e0n. Tr\u1ed9m c\u1eafp l\u00e0m ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3. M\u1ed9t b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eafn m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch. Sau \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng t\u00ean c\u01b0\u1edbp c\u00f3 v\u0169 trang x\u00f4ng v\u00e0o v\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. B\u1ea3y n\u0103m t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean, tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. B\u1ea3y n\u0103m ph\u1edbt l\u1edd ti\u1ebfng th\u00ec th\u1ea7m: Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1i n\u00e0y.\n \u0110\u1ebfn n\u0103m 2018, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng. V\u00e0 \u1edf Turks &amp; Caicos, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 y\u00eau th\u00edch n\u01a1i n\u00e0y. C\u00e1c h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb n\u1edf r\u1ed9. T\u00f4i l\u1ea1i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui v\u1edbi padel. T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng &#8220;c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t&#8221; th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00f3p ngh\u1eb9t &#8220;c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t&#8221;, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i \u1ea3o \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.     \n T\u00f4i c\u0169ng nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 khi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed ho\u00e0nh tr\u00e1ng, s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa Age of Empires , Rise of Nations v\u00e0 Kohan . Chi ph\u00ed t\u0103ng v\u1ecdt, th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i qua. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u: v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang n\u00f3i, H\u00e3y ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean.  \n T\u00f4i c\u00e0ng l\u1eafng nghe th\u00ec c\u00e1c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.\n Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, \u1edf Th\u1ed5 Nh\u0129 K\u1ef3, d\u00f2ng \u0111i\u1ec7n \u0111ang y\u1ebfu d\u1ea7n. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00e1i ph\u00e9p, ch\u1eafn m\u1ea5t t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i \u00e1nh \u0111\u00e8n c\u1ee7a trung t\u00e2m th\u1ec3 thao c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. C\u00e1c b\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf c\u00e1c d\u1ef1 \u00e1n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch nh\u1ecf nhen. N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, tr\u00ec tr\u1ec7.    \n Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, Antigua v\u1eaby g\u1ecdi. Ch\u00ednh Th\u1ee7 t\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c mi\u1ec5n tr\u1eeb v\u00e0 gi\u1ea5y ph\u00e9p. C\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n t\u00f4i n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t. \u0110\u1ea1i s\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0a t\u00f4i bay qua h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea3o b\u1eb1ng tr\u1ef1c th\u0103ng, gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2y. D\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y \u1ea5y th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn.    \n C\u00f9ng l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, Midas, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i ch\u00fa \u00fd th\u00ec c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u l\u1ea1i tr\u00f9ng kh\u1edbp. \n Ngay c\u1ea3 c\u1eadu con trai ba tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u00ec th\u1ea7m th\u00eam v\u00e0o. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, n\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 em trai. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1eeb, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i l\u1eafng nghe. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3: tr\u1ebb con c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i. N\u00f3 g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c.     \n L\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ec3n hi\u1ec7u neon\n Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng s\u00e9t \u00e1i t\u00ecnh: m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ch\u1edbp nho\u00e1ng, m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi vang d\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn. Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfm khi g\u00e0o th\u00e9t. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i kh\u1ebd. N\u00f3 th\u00fac gi\u1ee5c. N\u00f3 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra.    \n Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m ch\u00fang ta nh\u1edb\n C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u1ea1t sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean.\n R\u00e0o c\u1ea3n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1edbi h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng m\u1edbi.\n S\u1ef1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua.\n \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi. \n T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecf qua ch\u00fang\n Ch\u00fang ta b\u00e1m v\u00edu v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng di\u1ec5n ra theo k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i theo k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh n\u00f3. Khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta coi nh\u1eefng t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n. Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng r\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. L\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00fa hu\u00fdch. C\u00fa hu\u00fdch tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00fa \u0111\u1ea9y. N\u1ebfu l\u1edd n\u00f3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e2u, m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.      \n Alan Watts \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u0111au kh\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. L\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. \n S\u1ef1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean hay m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7?\n Carl Jung g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9. Watts coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh n\u00f3. \n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n ngay khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00ecnh c\u1edd. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ee3i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m th\u1ea3m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ec7t v\u00e0o.   \n V\u0169 tr\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n, g\u1eedi nh\u1eefng g\u1ee3i \u00fd t\u1eeb xa. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 th\u00f4ng qua b\u1ea1n.  \n L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 nghe l\u1ea1i\n B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u00e9p thu\u1eadt. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. \n H\u00e3y t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng. L\u01b0u \u00fd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. Quan s\u00e1t s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y. Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.   \n L\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m tin. Ch\u00fang m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i nh\u1ecf, nh\u1eefng th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 h\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y theo ch\u00fang, v\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n h\u00e9 l\u1ed9 t\u1eebng vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e1 m\u1ed9t.  \n \u0110i\u1ec3m ch\u00ednh\n Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u00e9t l\u00ean. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng \u00e1t \u0111i ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n.  \n V\u1eady n\u00ean, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. H\u00edt th\u1edf. Quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1c quy lu\u1eadt. Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o s\u1ee9c k\u00e9o kh\u00f4ng bu\u00f4ng tha b\u1ea1n.   \n B\u1edfi v\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft b\u1ea1n su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian qua. 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