{"id":31158,"date":"2017-08-29T14:16:54","date_gmt":"2017-08-29T14:16:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fabricegrinda.com\/era-lumea-lui-bagheera-noi-doar-traiam-in-ea\/"},"modified":"2017-08-29T14:16:54","modified_gmt":"2017-08-29T14:16:54","slug":"era-lumea-lui-bagheera-noi-doar-traiam-in-ea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/era-lumea-lui-bagheera-noi-doar-traiam-in-ea\/","title":{"rendered":"Era lumea lui Bagheera, noi doar tr\u0103iam \u00een ea."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Dragostea mea pentru c\u00e2ini este bine documentat\u0103<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/personal-musings\/farewell-harvard\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">(Adio Harvard!<\/a>), dar trebuie s\u0103 recunosc c\u0103 niciun c\u00e2ine nu a \u00eensemnat mai mult pentru mine dec\u00e2t Bagheera. \u00centr-un fel, este ciudat s\u0103 fie a\u0219a. A fost de fapt c\u00e2inele prietenei mele din 2005.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Am crescut cu Ucla, un labrador galben extraordinar, \u0219i de atunci am t\u00e2njit dup\u0103 un labrador asem\u0103n\u0103tor. \u0218tiam c\u0103 ar fi nedrept fa\u021b\u0103 de c\u00e2ine dac\u0103 l-a\u0219 lua \u00een timp ce locuiam \u00eentr-un apartament micu\u021b din New York, \u00een timp ce eram complet suprasolicitat\u0103 de la McKinsey sau de la orice alt startup pe care \u00eel conduceam. Mi-am a\u0219teptat timpul. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, dup\u0103 ce am v\u00e2ndut Zingy, mi-am putut permite s\u0103 am o cas\u0103 la \u021bar\u0103 cu o gr\u0103din\u0103 mare \u0219i mi-am putut \u00eendeplini visul din copil\u0103rie.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Eu voiam un labrador galben, iar prietena mea voia o femel\u0103 Rottweiler care trebuia s\u0103 se numeasc\u0103 Bagheera. Am f\u0103cut un compromis \u00een\u021belept \u0219i le-am luat pe am\u00e2ndou\u0103. Ea a c\u0103utat cresc\u0103tori, a citit c\u0103r\u021bi despre cum s\u0103 selecteze printre to\u021bi c\u0103\u021beii, \u00een timp ce eu aveam sarcina de a m\u0103 t\u0103v\u0103li prin noroi \u0219i de a m\u0103 juca cu ei.<\/p>\n<p><center><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8221\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/It-was-Bagheera-1.2-800x267.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"267\"><\/center><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Bagheera s-a n\u0103scut pe 4 martie 2005, la dou\u0103 zile dup\u0103 Harvard, labradorul meu galben, \u0219i s-a al\u0103turat familiei noastre la 6 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni dup\u0103 aceea, la o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 dup\u0103 sosirea lui Harvard. De\u0219i mi-au pl\u0103cut imediat fa\u021ba ei zb\u00e2rcit\u0103 \u0219i l\u0103bu\u021bele uria\u0219e, nu mi-a fost imediat clar la acel moment c\u00e2t de excep\u021bional\u0103 era. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, \u00een primele zile, am sim\u021bit c\u0103 Harvard a fost cel care a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat mai repede. Abia mai t\u00e2rziu mi-am dat seama c\u0103 era un gurmand insa\u021biabil care ar fi f\u0103cut orice pentru m\u00e2ncare. A \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat doar s\u0103 culeag\u0103 recompense savuroase. \u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103tura lui s-a oprit brusc c\u00e2nd \u0219i-a dat seama c\u0103 \u00eei era mult mai u\u0219or s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i foloseasc\u0103 \u0219iretenia, farmecul \u0219i frumuse\u021bea pentru a fura cantit\u0103\u021bi mult mai mari de m\u00e2ncare dec\u00e2t recompensele mizere pe care i le ofeream pentru a \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba trucuri noi.<\/p>\n<p><center><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8231\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Bagheera-Blog-1.3-800x541.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\"><\/center><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Ceea ce au observat cei mai mul\u021bi oameni atunci c\u00e2nd au \u00eent\u00e2lnit-o pentru prima dat\u0103 a fost echilibrul \u0219i gra\u021bia ei. Era \u00eentotdeauna calm\u0103 \u0219i deliberat\u0103 \u0219i avea un aer regal de deta\u0219are. \u00ce\u0219i cuno\u0219tea for\u021ba \u0219i o modula pentru a se juca cu copiii \u0219i bebelu\u0219ii. Nu a m\u00e2r\u00e2it niciodat\u0103 \u0219i a p\u0103rut mereu g\u00e2nditoare. Pentru to\u021bi cei care au cunoscut-o, ea a reabilitat de una singur\u0103 \u00eentreaga ras\u0103 Rottweiler dintr-o singur\u0103 lovitur\u0103. Rottweilerii au reputa\u021bia de c\u00e2ini agresivi \u0219i periculo\u0219i, dar calmul ei i-a convins rapid pe oameni.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8189\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/1464021_323447987797397_1481101391_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"540\" height=\"720\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Datorit\u0103 echilibrului \u0219i inteligen\u021bei sale, am ajuns s\u0103 petrec mult mai mult timp cu ea dec\u00e2t cu Harvard. \u00cen Sands Point, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat-o s\u0103 mearg\u0103 cu bicicleta cu mine. Cu sau f\u0103r\u0103 les\u0103, ea alerga \u00eentotdeauna \u00een dreapta bicicletei mele, la ad\u0103post de trafic, \u00eentotdeauna la aceea\u0219i vitez\u0103 cu a mea, f\u0103r\u0103 a fi distras\u0103 de al\u021bi c\u00e2ini sau veveri\u021be. Este o performan\u021b\u0103 pe care nu am reu\u0219it-o niciodat\u0103 cu Harvard, care s\u0103rea pe mine sau \u00eencepea s\u0103 alerge dup\u0103 orice, fiind aproape s\u0103 ne omoare de mai multe ori \u00een acest proces. De asemenea, \u00een Cabarete, a trebuit s\u0103 nu-l mai aduc pe Harvard la Kite Club, deoarece trebuia s\u0103 cump\u0103r mesele nenum\u0103ra\u021bilor oameni de la care fur\u0103. \u00cen schimb, Bagheera se plimba, se juca cu copiii \u0219i m\u0103 a\u0219tepta r\u0103bd\u0103tor pe plaj\u0103. \u00cen timp ce f\u0103ceam kite, ea era mereu atent\u0103 la mine, mereu \u00eenc\u00e2ntat\u0103 de \u00eentoarcerea mea.<\/p>\n<p><center><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8191\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/IMG-20140811-WA0001-600x800.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"800\"><\/center><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">A dormit l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine \u00een pat \u00een fiecare noapte, oferindu-mi c\u0103ldur\u0103, companie \u0219i iubire. Harvard se trezea \u00een fiecare zi la ora 6 diminea\u021ba \u0219i pleca imediat pentru a-\u0219i continua c\u0103utarea interminabil\u0103 de hran\u0103 sau, mai r\u0103u, m\u0103 trezea pentru a-mi cere micul dejun. \u00cen schimb, Bagheera, de\u0219i se trezea de cele mai multe ori \u00een acela\u0219i timp, a\u0219tepta r\u0103bd\u0103tor \u00een pat, veghind asupra mea \u00een timp ce dormeam. C\u00e2nd m\u0103 trezeam, m\u0103 cople\u0219ea cu s\u0103rut\u0103ri \u0219i nu se ridica din pat dec\u00e2t atunci c\u00e2nd o f\u0103ceam eu.<\/p>\n<p><center><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8223\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/F-B-3.2-800x457.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"457\"><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Gra\u021bia \u0219i agilitatea ei erau, de asemenea, extraordinare. A fost numit\u0103 pe bun\u0103 dreptate, av\u00e2nd \u00een vedere abilit\u0103\u021bile sale asem\u0103n\u0103toare cu cele ale unei feline. Prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd am observat acest lucru a fost la v\u00e2rsta de 6 luni. Ca o pisic\u0103 (sau ca o panter\u0103 neagr\u0103), a s\u0103rit peste sp\u0103tarul canapelei pentru a se urca pe ea, \u00een loc s\u0103 se plimbe \u00een jurul canapelei \u0219i s\u0103 calce pur \u0219i simplu pe ea. Acest lucru a devenit \u0219i mai evident \u00een timp ce ne jucam &#8222;maimu\u021ba cu frisbee \u00een mijloc&#8221;. A fost jocul nostru preferat. \u00cel jucam ore \u00eentregi \u00een fiecare zi. Harvard \u0219i Bagheera ar fi maimu\u021bele, \u00een timp ce noi am arunca frisbee-ul \u00eentre prieteni. C\u00e2nd nu reu\u0219eam, \u00eencepea o curs\u0103 pentru a lua frisbee-ul, pe care invariabil Bagheera o c\u00e2\u0219tiga. Urma un amestec de tras de m\u00e2nec\u0103 \u0219i lupte pentru a i-o lua \u00eenapoi \u00eenainte de a o lua de la cap\u0103t. Destul de repede, Bagheera \u0219i-a dat seama c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i poate folosi agilitatea pentru a apuca frisbee-ul din m\u00e2inile noastre \u00een timp ce \u00eel primim sau \u00eel arunc\u0103m. A fost extraordinar s\u0103-mi dau seama c\u0103 putea s\u0103 sar\u0103 deasupra capului meu (\u0219i eu am 1,80 m!) \u0219i s\u0103 aterizeze cu gra\u021bie de fiecare dat\u0103. Am dezvoltat chiar \u0219i un joc \u00een care ea alerga, s\u0103rea \u0219i eu o prindeam \u00een aer.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8195\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/It-was-Bagheera-2-800x267.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"267\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8196\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/It-was-Bagheera-3-800x681.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"681\"><\/p>\n<p>De asemenea, \u00eencerca s\u0103 \u00eel ademeneasc\u0103 pe Harvard, care era mult mai lene\u0219 \u0219i care alerga \u00een felul s\u0103u distinct, mai degrab\u0103 dec\u00e2t cu gra\u021bia elegant\u0103 a lui Bagheera, s\u0103 o urm\u0103reasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 se joace cu ea.<\/p>\n<p><center><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Harvard &amp; Bagheera in the Snow\" width=\"840\" height=\"630\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ZlNwzwphn3M?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/center><\/p>\n<p><center><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Harvard &amp; Bagheera Playing\" width=\"840\" height=\"473\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/GLYBxuyTabU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/center><\/p>\n<p>De\u0219i p\u0103rea deta\u0219at\u0103 \u0219i regal\u0103 pentru cei mai mul\u021bi, ea avea un singur nord adev\u0103rat: dragostea ei necondi\u021bionat\u0103 pentru mine. C\u00e2nd eram \u00een acela\u0219i loc, eram de nedesp\u0103r\u021bit. Fie c\u0103 m\u0103 jucam, munceam sau dormeam, ea era mereu cu mine, veghind asupra mea \u0219i iubindu-m\u0103. Dac\u0103 eram bolnav\u0103, se \u00eentindea l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine pentru a m\u0103 alina. Sim\u021bea dac\u0103 munceam prea mult \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eempingea s\u0103 merg s\u0103 alerg sau s\u0103 m\u0103 joc frisbee cu ea. Ea a fost mereu al\u0103turi de mine \u0219i nu a durat mult p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd aceast\u0103 dragoste necondi\u021bionat\u0103 a devenit complet reciproc\u0103. Nu mi-a\u0219 putea imagina via\u021ba f\u0103r\u0103 ea \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103rut\u0103rile ei al\u0103turi de mine. Am dezvoltat un ritual prin care m\u0103 acoperea cu s\u0103rut\u0103ri \u00een fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd m\u0103 trezeam, de mai multe ori \u00een timpul zilei, mai ales dac\u0103 eram desp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi, \u0219i \u00een fiecare sear\u0103 \u00eenainte de culcare.<\/p>\n<p><center><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Bagheera&#039;s Birthday Kisses\" width=\"840\" height=\"473\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/g_AcJnNJyJY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Din p\u0103cate, timpul ne ajunge din urm\u0103 pe to\u021bi. C\u00e2nd am ajuns prima dat\u0103 \u00een Cabarete, \u00een 2013, ea avea 8 ani. De\u0219i \u0219i-a p\u0103strat \u00eenf\u0103\u021bi\u0219area de c\u0103\u021belu\u0219 \u0219i nasul zb\u00e2rcit, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eencetineasc\u0103. La \u00eenceput, a alergat pe plaj\u0103 cu Otilia \u00een fiecare zi de la Embocca la La Boca \u0219i \u00eenapoi. \u00cen 6 luni, a alergat doar jum\u0103tate de drum \u0219i se \u00eentorcea pe jos. Dup\u0103 9 luni, se plimba pu\u021bin \u00eenainte de a se \u00eentoarce, iar dup\u0103 un an a \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai mearg\u0103 deloc, petrec\u00e2nd mai mult timp uit\u00e2ndu-se cu nostalgie \u00een dep\u0103rtare dec\u00e2t alerg\u00e2nd pe plaj\u0103. De\u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eei pl\u0103cea s\u0103 se joace cu frisbee \u0219i s\u0103 trag\u0103 de m\u00e2nec\u0103, \u00een mod \u00een\u021belept a renun\u021bat s\u0103 mai sar\u0103, deoarece picioarele din spate au \u00eenceput s\u0103 o deranjeze pu\u021bin. Am \u00eenlocuit scara abrupt\u0103 de la Embocca pentru a-i u\u0219ura accesul \u00een dormitorul meu. La 11 ani \u0219i-a pierdut abilitatea de a s\u0103ri \u00een portbagajul SUV-ului atunci c\u00e2nd m\u0103 duceam s\u0103 fac kite sau s\u0103 joc tenis, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 o car \u00een portbagaj.<\/p>\n<p><center><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8199\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/10259404_10153995423875648_166542607_n-600x800.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\"><\/center><\/p>\n<p>La fel ca majoritatea dintre noi, p\u0103rea s\u0103 se relaxeze pu\u021bin \u0219i s\u0103 se ia mai pu\u021bin \u00een serios pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nea, sim\u021bindu-se confortabil \u00een ridicolul de zi cu zi.<\/p>\n<p><center><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8200\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Bagheera-Blog-4-800x681.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"681\"><\/center><\/p>\n<p>\u00cen tot acest timp, dragostea ei nu s-a clintit niciodat\u0103 \u0219i a fost \u00eentotdeauna un companion iubitor. \u00cen ultimii ei ani de via\u021b\u0103, m\u0103 bucur c\u0103 a reu\u0219it s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 d\u0103ruiasc\u0103 dragoste lui <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/profile.php?id=100012367697587\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Milo<\/a>, \u00eengrijitorul ei iubitor din Cabarete. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, ne-a p\u0103r\u0103sit pe 4 august 2017, la o zi dup\u0103 ziua mea de na\u0219tere, la frageda v\u00e2rst\u0103 de 12 ani \u0219i jum\u0103tate. \u0218tiu c\u0103 a avut o via\u021b\u0103 extraordinar de binecuv\u00e2ntat\u0103, dar las\u0103 un gol imens \u00een inima mea \u0219i \u00eemi lipse\u0219te cu adev\u0103rat. Simt cu adev\u0103rat c\u0103 am pierdut dragostea vie\u021bii mele \u0219i copilul meu \u00een acela\u0219i timp.<\/p>\n<p>Adio Bagheera. Mul\u021bumesc pentru doisprezece ani \u0219i jum\u0103tate de dragoste necondi\u021bionat\u0103 \u0219i fericire. Nu vei fi uitat niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8201\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Bagheera-Blog-5-716x800.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8202\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fabricegrinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/christmas-16-800x533.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dragostea mea pentru c\u00e2ini este bine documentat\u0103(Adio Harvard!), dar trebuie s\u0103 recunosc c\u0103 niciun c\u00e2ine nu a \u00eensemnat mai mult pentru mine dec\u00e2t Bagheera. \u00centr-un fel, este ciudat s\u0103 fie &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/fabricegrinda.com\/ro\/era-lumea-lui-bagheera-noi-doar-traiam-in-ea\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continu\u0103 lectura<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> \u201eEra lumea lui Bagheera, noi doar tr\u0103iam \u00een ea.\u201d<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":31166,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[216,193,203],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31158","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-caini","category-posturi-recomandate","category-reflectii-personale"],"acf":[],"contentUpdated":"Era lumea lui Bagheera, noi doar tr\u0103iam \u00een ea.. Categories - C\u00e2ini, Posturi recomandate, Reflec\u021bii personale. Date-Posted - 2017-08-29T14:16:54 . Dragostea mea pentru c\u00e2ini este bine documentat\u0103(Adio Harvard!), dar trebuie s\u0103 recunosc c\u0103 niciun c\u00e2ine nu a \u00eensemnat mai mult pentru mine dec\u00e2t Bagheera. \u00centr-un fel, este ciudat s\u0103 fie a\u0219a. A fost de fapt c\u00e2inele prietenei mele din 2005.\n Am crescut cu Ucla, un labrador galben extraordinar, \u0219i de atunci am t\u00e2njit dup\u0103 un labrador asem\u0103n\u0103tor. \u0218tiam c\u0103 ar fi nedrept fa\u021b\u0103 de c\u00e2ine dac\u0103 l-a\u0219 lua \u00een timp ce locuiam \u00eentr-un apartament micu\u021b din New York, \u00een timp ce eram complet suprasolicitat\u0103 de la McKinsey sau de la orice alt startup pe care \u00eel conduceam. Mi-am a\u0219teptat timpul. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, dup\u0103 ce am v\u00e2ndut Zingy, mi-am putut permite s\u0103 am o cas\u0103 la \u021bar\u0103 cu o gr\u0103din\u0103 mare \u0219i mi-am putut \u00eendeplini visul din copil\u0103rie.\n Eu voiam un labrador galben, iar prietena mea voia o femel\u0103 Rottweiler care trebuia s\u0103 se numeasc\u0103 Bagheera. Am f\u0103cut un compromis \u00een\u021belept \u0219i le-am luat pe am\u00e2ndou\u0103. Ea a c\u0103utat cresc\u0103tori, a citit c\u0103r\u021bi despre cum s\u0103 selecteze printre to\u021bi c\u0103\u021beii, \u00een timp ce eu aveam sarcina de a m\u0103 t\u0103v\u0103li prin noroi \u0219i de a m\u0103 juca cu ei.\n Bagheera s-a n\u0103scut pe 4 martie 2005, la dou\u0103 zile dup\u0103 Harvard, labradorul meu galben, \u0219i s-a al\u0103turat familiei noastre la 6 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni dup\u0103 aceea, la o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 dup\u0103 sosirea lui Harvard. De\u0219i mi-au pl\u0103cut imediat fa\u021ba ei zb\u00e2rcit\u0103 \u0219i l\u0103bu\u021bele uria\u0219e, nu mi-a fost imediat clar la acel moment c\u00e2t de excep\u021bional\u0103 era. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, \u00een primele zile, am sim\u021bit c\u0103 Harvard a fost cel care a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat mai repede. Abia mai t\u00e2rziu mi-am dat seama c\u0103 era un gurmand insa\u021biabil care ar fi f\u0103cut orice pentru m\u00e2ncare. A \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat doar s\u0103 culeag\u0103 recompense savuroase. \u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103tura lui s-a oprit brusc c\u00e2nd \u0219i-a dat seama c\u0103 \u00eei era mult mai u\u0219or s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i foloseasc\u0103 \u0219iretenia, farmecul \u0219i frumuse\u021bea pentru a fura cantit\u0103\u021bi mult mai mari de m\u00e2ncare dec\u00e2t recompensele mizere pe care i le ofeream pentru a \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba trucuri noi.\n Ceea ce au observat cei mai mul\u021bi oameni atunci c\u00e2nd au \u00eent\u00e2lnit-o pentru prima dat\u0103 a fost echilibrul \u0219i gra\u021bia ei. Era \u00eentotdeauna calm\u0103 \u0219i deliberat\u0103 \u0219i avea un aer regal de deta\u0219are. \u00ce\u0219i cuno\u0219tea for\u021ba \u0219i o modula pentru a se juca cu copiii \u0219i bebelu\u0219ii. Nu a m\u00e2r\u00e2it niciodat\u0103 \u0219i a p\u0103rut mereu g\u00e2nditoare. Pentru to\u021bi cei care au cunoscut-o, ea a reabilitat de una singur\u0103 \u00eentreaga ras\u0103 Rottweiler dintr-o singur\u0103 lovitur\u0103. Rottweilerii au reputa\u021bia de c\u00e2ini agresivi \u0219i periculo\u0219i, dar calmul ei i-a convins rapid pe oameni.\n Datorit\u0103 echilibrului \u0219i inteligen\u021bei sale, am ajuns s\u0103 petrec mult mai mult timp cu ea dec\u00e2t cu Harvard. \u00cen Sands Point, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat-o s\u0103 mearg\u0103 cu bicicleta cu mine. Cu sau f\u0103r\u0103 les\u0103, ea alerga \u00eentotdeauna \u00een dreapta bicicletei mele, la ad\u0103post de trafic, \u00eentotdeauna la aceea\u0219i vitez\u0103 cu a mea, f\u0103r\u0103 a fi distras\u0103 de al\u021bi c\u00e2ini sau veveri\u021be. Este o performan\u021b\u0103 pe care nu am reu\u0219it-o niciodat\u0103 cu Harvard, care s\u0103rea pe mine sau \u00eencepea s\u0103 alerge dup\u0103 orice, fiind aproape s\u0103 ne omoare de mai multe ori \u00een acest proces. De asemenea, \u00een Cabarete, a trebuit s\u0103 nu-l mai aduc pe Harvard la Kite Club, deoarece trebuia s\u0103 cump\u0103r mesele nenum\u0103ra\u021bilor oameni de la care fur\u0103. \u00cen schimb, Bagheera se plimba, se juca cu copiii \u0219i m\u0103 a\u0219tepta r\u0103bd\u0103tor pe plaj\u0103. \u00cen timp ce f\u0103ceam kite, ea era mereu atent\u0103 la mine, mereu \u00eenc\u00e2ntat\u0103 de \u00eentoarcerea mea.\n A dormit l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine \u00een pat \u00een fiecare noapte, oferindu-mi c\u0103ldur\u0103, companie \u0219i iubire. Harvard se trezea \u00een fiecare zi la ora 6 diminea\u021ba \u0219i pleca imediat pentru a-\u0219i continua c\u0103utarea interminabil\u0103 de hran\u0103 sau, mai r\u0103u, m\u0103 trezea pentru a-mi cere micul dejun. \u00cen schimb, Bagheera, de\u0219i se trezea de cele mai multe ori \u00een acela\u0219i timp, a\u0219tepta r\u0103bd\u0103tor \u00een pat, veghind asupra mea \u00een timp ce dormeam. C\u00e2nd m\u0103 trezeam, m\u0103 cople\u0219ea cu s\u0103rut\u0103ri \u0219i nu se ridica din pat dec\u00e2t atunci c\u00e2nd o f\u0103ceam eu.\n Gra\u021bia \u0219i agilitatea ei erau, de asemenea, extraordinare. A fost numit\u0103 pe bun\u0103 dreptate, av\u00e2nd \u00een vedere abilit\u0103\u021bile sale asem\u0103n\u0103toare cu cele ale unei feline. Prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd am observat acest lucru a fost la v\u00e2rsta de 6 luni. Ca o pisic\u0103 (sau ca o panter\u0103 neagr\u0103), a s\u0103rit peste sp\u0103tarul canapelei pentru a se urca pe ea, \u00een loc s\u0103 se plimbe \u00een jurul canapelei \u0219i s\u0103 calce pur \u0219i simplu pe ea. Acest lucru a devenit \u0219i mai evident \u00een timp ce ne jucam &#8222;maimu\u021ba cu frisbee \u00een mijloc&#8221;. A fost jocul nostru preferat. \u00cel jucam ore \u00eentregi \u00een fiecare zi. Harvard \u0219i Bagheera ar fi maimu\u021bele, \u00een timp ce noi am arunca frisbee-ul \u00eentre prieteni. C\u00e2nd nu reu\u0219eam, \u00eencepea o curs\u0103 pentru a lua frisbee-ul, pe care invariabil Bagheera o c\u00e2\u0219tiga. Urma un amestec de tras de m\u00e2nec\u0103 \u0219i lupte pentru a i-o lua \u00eenapoi \u00eenainte de a o lua de la cap\u0103t. Destul de repede, Bagheera \u0219i-a dat seama c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i poate folosi agilitatea pentru a apuca frisbee-ul din m\u00e2inile noastre \u00een timp ce \u00eel primim sau \u00eel arunc\u0103m. A fost extraordinar s\u0103-mi dau seama c\u0103 putea s\u0103 sar\u0103 deasupra capului meu (\u0219i eu am 1,80 m!) \u0219i s\u0103 aterizeze cu gra\u021bie de fiecare dat\u0103. Am dezvoltat chiar \u0219i un joc \u00een care ea alerga, s\u0103rea \u0219i eu o prindeam \u00een aer.\n De asemenea, \u00eencerca s\u0103 \u00eel ademeneasc\u0103 pe Harvard, care era mult mai lene\u0219 \u0219i care alerga \u00een felul s\u0103u distinct, mai degrab\u0103 dec\u00e2t cu gra\u021bia elegant\u0103 a lui Bagheera, s\u0103 o urm\u0103reasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 se joace cu ea.\n De\u0219i p\u0103rea deta\u0219at\u0103 \u0219i regal\u0103 pentru cei mai mul\u021bi, ea avea un singur nord adev\u0103rat: dragostea ei necondi\u021bionat\u0103 pentru mine. C\u00e2nd eram \u00een acela\u0219i loc, eram de nedesp\u0103r\u021bit. Fie c\u0103 m\u0103 jucam, munceam sau dormeam, ea era mereu cu mine, veghind asupra mea \u0219i iubindu-m\u0103. Dac\u0103 eram bolnav\u0103, se \u00eentindea l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine pentru a m\u0103 alina. Sim\u021bea dac\u0103 munceam prea mult \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eempingea s\u0103 merg s\u0103 alerg sau s\u0103 m\u0103 joc frisbee cu ea. Ea a fost mereu al\u0103turi de mine \u0219i nu a durat mult p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd aceast\u0103 dragoste necondi\u021bionat\u0103 a devenit complet reciproc\u0103. Nu mi-a\u0219 putea imagina via\u021ba f\u0103r\u0103 ea \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103rut\u0103rile ei al\u0103turi de mine. Am dezvoltat un ritual prin care m\u0103 acoperea cu s\u0103rut\u0103ri \u00een fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd m\u0103 trezeam, de mai multe ori \u00een timpul zilei, mai ales dac\u0103 eram desp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi, \u0219i \u00een fiecare sear\u0103 \u00eenainte de culcare.\n Din p\u0103cate, timpul ne ajunge din urm\u0103 pe to\u021bi. C\u00e2nd am ajuns prima dat\u0103 \u00een Cabarete, \u00een 2013, ea avea 8 ani. De\u0219i \u0219i-a p\u0103strat \u00eenf\u0103\u021bi\u0219area de c\u0103\u021belu\u0219 \u0219i nasul zb\u00e2rcit, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eencetineasc\u0103. La \u00eenceput, a alergat pe plaj\u0103 cu Otilia \u00een fiecare zi de la Embocca la La Boca \u0219i \u00eenapoi. \u00cen 6 luni, a alergat doar jum\u0103tate de drum \u0219i se \u00eentorcea pe jos. Dup\u0103 9 luni, se plimba pu\u021bin \u00eenainte de a se \u00eentoarce, iar dup\u0103 un an a \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai mearg\u0103 deloc, petrec\u00e2nd mai mult timp uit\u00e2ndu-se cu nostalgie \u00een dep\u0103rtare dec\u00e2t alerg\u00e2nd pe plaj\u0103. De\u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eei pl\u0103cea s\u0103 se joace cu frisbee \u0219i s\u0103 trag\u0103 de m\u00e2nec\u0103, \u00een mod \u00een\u021belept a renun\u021bat s\u0103 mai sar\u0103, deoarece picioarele din spate au \u00eenceput s\u0103 o deranjeze pu\u021bin. Am \u00eenlocuit scara abrupt\u0103 de la Embocca pentru a-i u\u0219ura accesul \u00een dormitorul meu. La 11 ani \u0219i-a pierdut abilitatea de a s\u0103ri \u00een portbagajul SUV-ului atunci c\u00e2nd m\u0103 duceam s\u0103 fac kite sau s\u0103 joc tenis, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 o car \u00een portbagaj.\n La fel ca majoritatea dintre noi, p\u0103rea s\u0103 se relaxeze pu\u021bin \u0219i s\u0103 se ia mai pu\u021bin \u00een serios pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nea, sim\u021bindu-se confortabil \u00een ridicolul de zi cu zi.\n \u00cen tot acest timp, dragostea ei nu s-a clintit niciodat\u0103 \u0219i a fost \u00eentotdeauna un companion iubitor. \u00cen ultimii ei ani de via\u021b\u0103, m\u0103 bucur c\u0103 a reu\u0219it s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 d\u0103ruiasc\u0103 dragoste lui Milo, \u00eengrijitorul ei iubitor din Cabarete. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, ne-a p\u0103r\u0103sit pe 4 august 2017, la o zi dup\u0103 ziua mea de na\u0219tere, la frageda v\u00e2rst\u0103 de 12 ani \u0219i jum\u0103tate. \u0218tiu c\u0103 a avut o via\u021b\u0103 extraordinar de binecuv\u00e2ntat\u0103, dar las\u0103 un gol imens \u00een inima mea \u0219i \u00eemi lipse\u0219te cu adev\u0103rat. Simt cu adev\u0103rat c\u0103 am pierdut dragostea vie\u021bii mele \u0219i copilul meu \u00een acela\u0219i timp.\n Adio Bagheera. Mul\u021bumesc pentru doisprezece ani \u0219i jum\u0103tate de dragoste necondi\u021bionat\u0103 \u0219i fericire. Nu vei fi uitat niciodat\u0103.\n ","Category":["C\u00e2ini","Posturi recomandate","Reflec\u021bii personale"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31158","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31158"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31158\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31158"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31158"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grinda.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}